We're Not Nice Girls

I once had a boyfriend tell me, "You aren't the kind of girl to take home to mom. You're not a nice girl." He hastily assured me that it was "a good thing!" but I was pretty offended. I remember thinking, "What the hell does that mean? I'm a nice person! I don't wanna meet your mom anyways, Rick, I've seen the racist shit she posts on your Facebook wall."